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writes: I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 1 month now. Shes 16 and im 18 she f**ked plenty of guys before, but when we f**ked the first time it was good she said that it hurt but we did it more and she says its too big, that it feels like it goes so far in and hurts her. Why is this? Reply to this Question
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reader, Arabyesque +, writes (16 November 2006):
"Why is this?". You utter, utter prat. It's because you're TOO BIG. She's telling you, in plain and simple terms, what the problem is! She's only 16, which means that her body hasn't fully matured yet, and no matter how many guys you say she's f**ked, her vagina just isn't stretched and loose enough to accomodate you yet. You thought the sex was great, which means that she must be fairly tight-- that's what makes it good for you, of course. There are a couple of things you can do about this. Firstly, try a lot of foreplay first so that she's very wet and relaxed when you actually engage in sex. The second thing you can try is to have her on top so she can control how deep you go. You can also try fingering her first and gently adding fingers until you approximate the size of your penis. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2006):
Her on top as a position and fingering. You can work her up to four fingers and you should be good. It is a muscle after all....
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2006): This is a curse and a blessing. Curse because you won't be able to fully express your physical desire to, ahem, thrust as deep as you wish. A blessing because it sounds as if you will never get the "I'm glad you're not as big as my last boyfriend" line.
Unfortunately, giving you advice would be against the law since you are committing statutory rape. However, when she turns 18 and you start having sex again, my advice then would be to try different positions. You are probably hitting her cervix, which I'm sure is very uncomfortable.
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