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*hbetheone
writes:My girlfriend recently broke up with me im 25 she is 24 .We were together for almost a year. She broke up with me two days ago. She recently finished school and moved down. She is working full time and has to get another job to make ends meet. The problem is her sister is living with her and going to start school. So my ex is taking care of herself and her sister. Well she said she hates herself because she feels like a horrible girlfriend. That I am putting in so much effort and she cant put in as much. She said it makes her hate herself everyday more and more. That I am such a great wonderful person , and that she loves me so much, and knows shes making a mistake. She wants to stay friends but I cant. She said she feels like shes got no time for herself let alone time for me. She cried so much I felt horrible . That she needs to fix herself and make herself able to be a wonderful girlfriend. I want her to be happy. I want the best for her I love her. I dont know if I should just let her go and not call her. Or if I should call her , she told me she dosent want to be with anyone and if she did she would stay with me. I just dont know im very confused.
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reader, ohbetheone +, writes (11 January 2009):
ohbetheone is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt has been a total of 10 days so far and I have not contacted , or have heard from her. I miss her so much, I have been stayig busy not trying to think about her. I just hope im doing the right thing by not calling or contacting her. I just would love to know how she is but I know if I ask around it will get back to her. I dont know anymore im just still in a state of shock and disbelief.
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