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writes:I 'met' a girl in my school a few months ago, though she'd always been there, it's only since a few months that i 'noticed' her. When i started hanging around with her, I asked myself 'do i like her as a friend or am i atracted to her?' many times. Turns out that that I really love her, she's always in my mind and i just cant stop thinking about her. Just before the holidays, I decided to tell her my my feelings for her, but, as one thing led to another, I ended up telling it over msn. We had a long talk, in which she said she did feel the same way. :)But now, when we saw eighother at school and I asked her again, she told me she didn't know anymore and wanted to just be friends again. What am I supposed to do? I'm thinking about stopping being her 'friend' as wel, because i think i wont be able to cope being her friend, and listening to all her problems, while not being her boyfriend. Dont get me wrong, i love listening to her and helping her out, but if i'm not her boyfriend, i dont think i will be able to act as her friend. Is this the best thing to do? Pleaz help?!
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reader, EleanorVM +, writes (9 January 2011):
If you like like her then don't push her away. You can still be friends but at least she now knows how you feel. She might be telling you this because she doesn't want to be in a relationship at this particular moment. But if you push her away, she won't know how she truly feels if you aren't there to help her when she needs advice. Hope that helps xx
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