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She said she loves me but not ready for a relationship. What to do?

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Question - (10 March 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 March 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *ilveknifex writes:

She said she loves me, but isnt ready for a relationship, how can i approach this?

so last week the girl i love told me she loved me it was probably one of the greatest feeling in the world to hear that from her mouth, but as a couple days went by she told me she didn't wanna mislead me because shes still at the point wheres shes not ready for a relationship, because shes still in the process of coming out of a break up ( she was in that realtionship for 3 hyears, )

she talks to me everynight on the phone for almost atleast an hour, we hang out atleast once a week usually, and shes randomly kissed me on occassions but u can tell shes not ready for the relationship, she knows ill wait, and thats what i want to do because i love her to death

but there are times where i get down about this, but i know it will get better in time, because shes tookin a ling step from the day shes told me she liked me because now she told me she loved me, and i do beleive this because when i first told her, she was curious how i loved her after three months but i explained to her, and she said one night she loved me too last week,

i really want this to work out and dont wanna mess anything up, so what are some ways i can continue at this situation,

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2009):

think you should marry her - sound incredibly sensible in telling you she needs time and space before she gets involved, otherwise you will be the rebound guy.

give her space and time and take it easy as you can.

Hugs, star.x.

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