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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:i'm a stubborn and picky bloke, and i struggle to find a woman that to me is 'what i'm looking for', until i found her, and i've never met anyone that i've conected with so well. we have lots in common, and share simliar interests, and she makes me laugh like there's no tomorrow. snag is, she knocked me back 3-4 months ago, because she only just broke up with her boyfriend of 2 years when she met me. which i didn't know much about.. now i'm wondering, do i ask her again? she said she wanted to be with me, but she just needed time and for me to be there for her, is this a no? is it worth risking the companionship we've got? please help it is killing me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2008): I am a "bloke" as well, and I could not have said it better than Emmy-Lou. Of course it is worth the risk, if you truly have the feelings you say. But, do take it slow. Not always easy for a guy your age, I know, but it can pay off.
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reader, Emmy-Lou  +, writes (20 March 2008):
 The best way to deal with this is gradually spend more time with her, start asking her out for a drink, or to the cinema. But take it easy, don't dive in head first, you may catch her off balance and she may reject your advances.
If you take it slow, you'll be amazed how quickly a relationship will start up.
Hope this helps and good luck.
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