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writes:Hi,I've been with my girlfriend for a few months but sex is very frustrating for me. She becomes very wet as soon as I put it inside her and comes almost instantly.... she assures me that she is not faking and it does feel genuine as I can feel contractions etc... This may sound great but the problem is that she just tells me to pull out after and loses interest.She doesn't even suck me off or give me a hand job but she gets angry if I do it myself and sometimes hits me telling me I'm disgusting.I cant leave her cos I'm so in love and she is so hot.I don't know what to do but I know I'm sick of masturbating alone in the dark in my shed next to my pet ferrit. Should I get a prostitute?HELP!!!!Don
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2007): tone down the foreplay if you're engaging in it
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reader, Keria  +, writes (25 April 2007):
She's a very selfish girl. Some guys like that... obviously you don't. Tell her she's going to have to start putting out more, or you are going to find another sex partner.
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reader, Dr. Mark  +, writes (24 April 2007):
Normally I would recommend for a man not to "put it in her" until she is good and ready, increasing her chance of having an orgasm before or at the same time as the male. But in YOUR case, maybe you need to wait before putting it in, so that YOU can be good and ready.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (24 April 2007):
 It is so refreshing to hear a man saying this as opposed to a woman! Now you know how we feel most of the time! I must say, I really envy your girlfriend, being able to come so quickly and easily.
But if you're not happy, then you have to talk to her. When I read these posts, I always tell them that sex should be about both of you, not just one of you so you need to let her know what she's doing is not good or get rid of her. There are plenty of hot girls out there who are more considerate and better in bed.
You should be happy you're pleasuring her but maybe you should work on ways together where you can both come at the same time. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2007): i agree with the other posts on here she does sound a little selfish in the bedroom department. have you tried bringing her to a climax before you enter her so that she has her orgasm and that you an both then get aroused again together and climax together. i cant understand why she pushes you away and tells you that you shouldnt bring yourself to your peak cause thats what you have done for her. it appears that this lady only likes it her way. i agree with mitch you need to do some honest straight talking with her to find out why she resents you having the same experience as she has. maybe some sex thearapy may help you both but please dont consider going to a prostitute that is not the answer here at all. try talking it through thats your only option good luck
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reader, deejuliet  +, writes (24 April 2007):
 Wow this girl is selfish! Talk to her. Explain to her that it isnt fair and it is very frustrating for you that you never get to be sexually satisfied. Only she matters? Only her orgasm is important and you are not ALLOWED to have one? She wont give you one, and you are not allowed to give yourself one. She needs to allow you to continue making love to her, even though she has already had an orgasm, until you are done. Either that, or she needs to satisfy you in another way.
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