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writes:[Mod Note: OP's suggested title taken] This girl and I liked each other last year and were going to go out, but I couldn't decide if i liked her that much and I ended up hurting her and she says she has lost those feelings for me. As time as passed my feelings for her kept getting stronger. Although she says she has no feelings for me my mind and heart say other wise, and I know its just wishful thinking. She also says that she thinks i like someone else (I'm guessing her best and my good friend) because she wont tell me who. Everything she dose annoys me but I cant get enough and its killing me. I would like to distance myself from her but she's in my friendship group. How do I get over her?
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reader, iloveblue  +, writes (29 September 2010):
 I suggest asking her for a talk and tell her how you feel about her. I do not encourage keeping it to yourself because this will consume you and will give you the psychological feeling that your feelings get more intense.
If you say what's on your mind, it will relieve you and at least you have told her about it. If she gives you a positive response, well, good for you. You can start from there.
If she responds negatively, listen to her. That's how she feels, you have said what you feel. Accept rejection and get on with your life. Do not stalk her, do not try to force her into anything. Let her be. You know, that's life...sometimes you win sometimes you lose. Forcing yourself to her will only make you a loser and a crazy guy in her eyes.
Good luck!
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reader, shorty80  +, writes (29 September 2010):
Exact same thing has just happened me, i think i waited too long in going for it with her, you only get a certain amount of time with anyone, if they open the door get in it quick because it will be shut in your face if come knocking again, it has just happened me, i think she might have been the one, but had fancied all my life, got the chance right out of the blue to be with her and i just messed it up.Im telling you and myself that we will meet someone special again, because when i met this girl my head had been wrecked for ages about another girl, when i met her all the pain went away, now i want someone to help take this pain away, i will always have feelings for her but there are a few more girls i am interested in, but im a bit afraid now with the pain the last two have caused me.
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