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writes: I have been in a relationship with a woman for 6 years. We have only been married for 1 year. I am helping raise her son who is 16 years old. We are doing an awesome job with him because we are open with him about everything in life. He is really a becomming a good young person. I keep catching my wife in lies and finding out things that she is doing behind my back. I have not caught her cheating, but the consistant little lies have me to believe that there is probably more things that I don't know. I am really happy about the life that we are making for ourselves but I cannot live with someone I cannot trust. I also know that if I decide to leave, I will turn my stepson's life upside down, and he doesn't deserve it. Some good advice would be helpful.A Good Man For Nothing,Dale Reply to this Question
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reader, DeeDoc  +, writes (7 January 2007):
 HERE ARE MY THOUGHTS: First of all you sound like a good man, and that always counts as something. You are putting your stepson's feelings before your own...that shows you have a good heart in my opinion. I do have to say that there is something missing from your question. What does your girlfriend lie about and how do you always catch her? What is she doing behind your back? Before I could even possibly reply, I would like to know these things before stating my opinion. Take care.
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reader, chigozie george +, writes (7 January 2007):
Its very obvious that you really love her and her son ,have you spoken to her concerning this issue?,if you have not,why not try this?, she does not own herself ,someone owns her ,so , why not talk to that person first,whos that person you would ask , her creator, talk to the creator before you talk to the creature,he sure has a way out.
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