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writes: Okay, there is this girl at my skool and we used to be okay mates until she started lying to us and trying to turn me and my friends against each other. And now, a year later, she suddenly makes up this cock and bull story about me spreading rumours about her. She started threatening me and everything. i'm scared, what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2006): It's not your fault. She has insecurity issues and is trying to worry you to feel better herself. She also sounds like she needs some real counciling.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2006): I suggest you go to your counseller and form a peer-to-peer counselling session between you and that girl, using the counseller as the mediator.
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reader, sibaan +, writes (8 June 2006):
 tell your friend to grow up and be a women not a girl. keep your friends close and give them the choice of who to beleive. you have known them longer so if they are true friends then they will stick by you. if not then your loosing people that dont mean much anyway. true friends stick by you till the end. remember two wrongs dont make a right.
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (8 June 2006):
 dear reader. this is a very hard one to answer, it depends on what she spreading around. i learnt the hard way by at school (being the one who was bullied) that your school years are way too short to be worried about silly romours as long as you know there not true please don't let it affect your life sounds to me she's a bit of a sh*t sturer whether that be because she is jealous i don't know but she has obviously got a few issuse she needs to sort out. my advise to you would be find a group of friends who belives you gets to really know you so this little girl can't get in the way in the end she will be the one sitting alone but you must remember to stick with it and do try not to let it get in the way of your school work too i hope i hear from you in the near future to say things have work themselves out i wish you lots of luck all the best xxx
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