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female
age
30-35,
*peedyCakey
writes: I've liked this guy in my class for a while, and only four of my best friends know about my crush.A while ago we went on a trip and my crush and one of my best friends kept talking to each other, and it got to the point they were being too close for comfort. I stayed quiet about it for the whole trip, and hoped that it wouldn't go on for too long.Back at school, they kept hanging out, and I think my anger was quiet clear, especially when that girl knew I liked him. Now she's avoiding him in an attempt to make me feel better, and I feel like a douche.Please help me. Give me any advice at all.
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reader, SpeedyCakey +, writes (15 June 2009):
SpeedyCakey is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThey were never in a relationship. They were just hanging out and talking, but what they did was a little irritating, since it wasn't really what friends did to each other (eg. he was braiding her hair, which doesn't sound like a big thing, but he never braids anyone's hair).
I wanna be a great friend, too, but how do I do that? Am I supposed to stay away from him, too?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009): She's being a good friend to you by staying away from a guy that she likes and that obviously likes her. Your friendship means more to her than a relationship. Wow, she's a great friend. It would be nice if you could be such a good friend and not hold her back from her happiness.
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