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writes:I have been going out with a girl for 2 months now, but i have recently found out that at the very beginning of our relationship, she kissed another guy. She was very drunk and couldn't even remember it, her friend had to tell her. Should i ever take her back??
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reader, rainbowcupcakes  +, writes (10 September 2008):
 Think of the situation. She is drunk out of her mind (not an excuse). It was the beginning of your relationship. Maybe she still didn't like you alot. Gosh, i feel so in touch with this. I did the same thing. At the beginning of my relationship with my actual boyfriend, i got drunk out of my mind, and kissed another guy, then i broke up with my boyfriend and started going out with the guy i kissed. Eventually it ended because we both knew why we were going out (simple physical atraction). And two months later i started dating my boyfriend again. Now 1 year and 7 months later, im totally in love with him and i regret ever hurting him. (we had been going out for 2 days when i cheated). so, maybe just give it a try. and forget what happened at the beginning (:
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (10 September 2008):
This got asked yesterday so my advice is to follow the advice you were given then.
As long as she promises not to drink that much again then you can take her back.
It was only a kiss.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Charli-x +, writes (10 September 2008):
You should try and work things out. Some people find it hard to sit down and talk about things, but so try, she doesnt remember so who is to say she did it. People say things for no reason. For all you know her friend could be lying. It doesnt matter how drunk you are, drunken memories come back to you sooner or later and I'm sure she would of remembered about it. If you care enough you would sort it out and move on. There is no point believing rumours or whatever her friends have told her. Its not worth it! If you feel like you cant move on then dont stay in the relationship because it will affect you in future relationships believe me. But in my opinion I think she obviously didnt mean it! If you care you would take her back, people work through things like this! xxx
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