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She keeps taking her friend's advice, what should I do?

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Question - (5 August 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 August 2008)
A male United States age 41-50, *cCabed writes:

Me and my girl friend have been friends for like 3 months before we got together. When we got together we were really happy until she told her friend about us, an she kept on talkin about our problems.

My girl never came to me with any of the questions an she kept on taking their advice, what should i do. She wants to get back together in a little bit, she said she wanted time alone, an we talk all the time.

We took alot of tests an we are like 98% matched.

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A female reader, !Candice16! United States +, writes (5 August 2008):

!Candice16! agony auntwell being a girl too , she probally is just nervous to tell you these things. she is probally fraod that you may get mad or even hurt by what she thinks or has to say. you need to tell her that she can talk to you and that she can always tell you whats on her mind.having your girlfriend feel safe and secure , also confident in your relationship is a good thing. im a girl so this advice should help. you guys soud do jus fine working out your problems if it was you and her talking about things not her going to her friends all the time. which is not such a great thing cuz then she will tell them how she feels nd not you. so fix it man!!! chase after that girl and show her you love her and that she can tlk to u!!!!!!!!! hope i helped you !!!

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A female reader, lexilou United Kingdom +, writes (5 August 2008):

lexilou agony auntThe tests mean nothing!!! real life is what counts, if she cant talk to you but confides in her best friend maybe she needs to mature a little bit. Talk to her about this and tell her you want to be the one to talk things through and that she shouldnt listen to her mate who may be single and jealous x

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