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writes: Hi, I'l give a bit of background information first, Me and my girlfriend have been together 9 months, this is our second time together we were together 8 months the split for 6 months.I broke it off the last time, it all got too intense she was planning on coming to live with me while i studied at university, i'm 19 and on a gap year now. After the 6 month period apart I began to miss her, emotionally and physically and so i asked her if we could try again and she said yes, it started out great again, we thought we had matured but we havn't, the same problems have come back to haunt us. We argue a lot, but she is so dependant on this relationship and breaking up again would break her heart and i don't know what to do. I hate myself for allowing this to happen, i should have kept my distance i know. But how can i solve this for the best? I really do care about her, but im not in love with her like i once was, please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2007): tell her the truth you need some time off
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reader, Toria +, writes (2 October 2006):
 It sounds like you don't want to be with her anymore and just don't know how to get out of this without hurting her, of course your going to care for her you were/are in a relationship together and spent alot of time together but if you don't want to be with her dragging this along is only going to hurt her more, you need to follow your heart and walk away if that is what you want to do, she will get over this but all the time you both stay in contact she will feel you will both get back together again as its happened so many times already.
Good luck :o)
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reader, laxchic82792 +, writes (2 October 2006):
Tell your gf that not very much has changed since you last broke up. Agree to be close friends, just not girl and boy friend. Hopefully, if she really cares about you, she'll understand.
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