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writes: hi therei'm really stuck on what i should do. i have been going out with this girl for a year and a half but for the last 2-3 months she only wants to see me once or twice a week and when i suggest that we should spend more time together she starts saying that im 'controlling her' and she keeps not answering the phone even though i have caught her out b4 because i called her mobile she didnt pick up so i tried the house fone and she said she was on her fone which dosent add up to me i just need some advice on what i can do to solve this situation should i stay with her or not if yes then why if not then why also thanks in advanceredline Reply to this Question
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reader, redline +, writes (29 August 2006):
redline is verified as being by the original poster of the question hi all thanks for your advice however it all went tits up and after 4 days of her refusing to pick the fone up she dumped me over msn so i guess im free and single again which might be a good thing!!! thanks again for your advice redline
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2006): Not spending more time with you is suspicious especially after 1 1/2 year relationship. I think it is time for both of you to talk and and for her to be honest with you. I think you know deep down she is up to something.
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reader, shania  +, writes (27 August 2006):
 The impression im getting is she is not that into you.You have been together for over a year but the relationship hasn't progressed like you have wanted it to.You obviously have more feelings for her but she is craving distance....why? you might ask? Well the only reason i can see is she probably likes you but doesn't want a serious relationship which involves seeing you on a regular basis so by her saying that she only wants to see you once a week then that tells me that she wants to do her own thing,if she is quite young then having a deep relationship with you probably stifles her.Trouble is...its frustrating you,maybe if you kept your distance and went out with your friends etc she might then want to see you more but is it a game that you want to play with her? Ask her what she wants out of this? You need clear answers because otherwise you are going to get your fingers burnt if all she wants is just a casual thing and you dont.Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2006): At a year and a half there should be no questions or games. I think she is looking for space and distance without physically asking for it. I would call her on it. If the answer is not what you want to hear, that is one less day wasted. There is a small chance she has a reason for it.
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