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writes: my fiance of two years had an affair in October with one of my friends. We worked through it and were as stong as ever and had set a date for the wedding. Last Friday she told me she was pregnant by him and was keeping it. We love each other desperatly and want to stay together, but I hate him and I dont want his kids around. I have to decide whether to stay her or leave her, I dont think Id be happy with either but I have to decide.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (8 February 2006):
 I agree, you need to get out now. This woman has betrayed your trust in the worst way possible and, although you say you love her, this will never go away. This child is always going to be there to remind you what she did to you and more hurt is all that's going to follow a decision to stay.
There's not much more I can say here, if you love her enough and are willing to get through it, nothing anyone else can say will change your mind. I just hope you have the self esteem and respect to walk away and find someone who will treat you right and love you properly.
Good luck
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reader, smeedle +, writes (8 February 2006):
 Jump ship, you aint siling anywhere with this, she may love you and you her but she is keeping the baby and you dont want it, good on her and good for you to know your own mind enough not to think you could bring up this baby.
Some men do but you say you wont/ carnt so get out now and save her and yourself more pain.
Were children are concernerned there is no trial period, you are best just finishing it, good luck.
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