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She is acting differently now... I just want to be her friend!

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Question - (16 December 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 December 2006)
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i really love my friend. i asked her to the ball she accepted but we never went because my mates came along so they wanted to go with me. she also prefered goin with mates. but after she's been actin different. she doesn't smile, she only say's hi if i start. she ignores me totally! it's hurting me so much i cant move on, i just want her to be my friend! i just found out from a friend that she fancies my friend which was a suprise to me! i dont think i can take this anymore! what can i do?

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A female reader, _flicky United Kingdom +, writes (20 December 2006):

_flicky agony auntWell, perhaps you upset her by not going to the dance with her. It seems like a typical response to say she wanted to go with friends too, since you had abandoned her to go with yours.

Try talking to her. Tell her that you think she's acting a little cold towards you, and ask if it was anything you did. She might be difficult, but keep asking. Say you really hope you didn't upset her, because that would be the last thing you wanted to do.

It doesn't sound like anything that can't be fixed by a little bit of effort and care, so good luck! Hopefully you will be friends again in no time.

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A female reader, Fed Up Female +, writes (16 December 2006):

Can't you just try to get some time with this girl and explain how you feel? She maybe doesn't realise you are hurting so badly. Either that or is it possible to have someone pass on your feelings to her?

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