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She hates when I touch her, she hates flowers and candy... what can I do?

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Question - (8 November 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 8 November 2008)
A age 41-50, * writes:

My girlfriend (of a year) hates it when I touched her breasts (she finds it disrespectful) or try and eat her out (she doesn't really like it). How can turn her on?

She also doesn't like the traditional flowers and chocolate. She thinks its over done. Its mainly her ex boyfriend's fault. Anytime he messes up he got her flowers and chocolates. Then she just sick of them. I need ideas in case I messed up.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008):

How can touching your partners breasts be disrepectful? Is she religious or something?

She has the problems mate, not you. Don't you ever wonder why her ex boyfriend is an ex?

Some women just love treating men in this way and if you allow it then it is not a partnership by any means.

Look elsewhere or you are lumbered for life.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (8 November 2008):

Kissing is the biggest turn on around.

Hold her close and look in her eyes and tell her how beautiful she is and then have a long passionate kiss.

She'll melt.

Also just ask her what she dreams about having done to her.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008):

Who knows, it sounds like you can't do anything nice. Maybe you should ask her just that... since you don't like this or that what can I do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008):

Cuddles, and kisses...it gets me...although, thats me... Let her know that your sorry, without the suff. She just got anoyed with that by her ex she cant stand it the flowers and chocolates anymore. With how it bugs her she probaby sees it as being a suckup/kissass.... y'know. Lots of kisses and cuddles to make her feel as if she is the only one your thinkin of..c'mon, now you think.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008):

Hm........ a kiss with a smile and an im sorry=)

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