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female
age
30-35,
*cruffy
writes:hey, well as it is coming to the end of 2008, i have been thinking back, and someone asked me 'who is the best new person you have met this year?' and then it hit me. i have met no one new, let alone the best one. and i have lost alot of people, and i think i know the cause of this. im best friends with this girl, and she moans and wines all the time, and every weekend i do something with her, and she gets annoyed and angry of i do stuff with other people, and i didnt invite her along. so i never get the chance to meet new people or go out with other people. and im not sure what to do, i want to meet new people, and i want to spend time with other people and less with her because she always brings me down and has a go at and picks at everything i do. im just not sure what to so, ANY suggestions would be so great,peace x
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2008): Well, I'll try and drop some input here;When you get older, you depend more on the friends you make when you are younger. Friends often draw apart, but if your friend is really constraining you to actually enjoy and live your life, it seems selfish.Go and do things with other people, but be sensitive to your friend aswell. Invite her occasionally, I'm sure you can meet new people together aswell as alone.
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reader, prenezmoila  +, writes (29 December 2008):
 You should be able to live your own life and include her. If she can't deal with this, she's not a good friend. Talk to her, see what's really on her mind. If you aren't able to have a good time with new people and her, you might want to tone down her influence on your life.
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