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anonymous
writes:When your partner lies and hides things from you and all of a sudden ask for a break with the excuse that she needs time to let go of the fact that I cheated 3 years ago and now she's asking me for time. Does that means she's cheating on me? She lives with me and she doesn't call me or look for me only when she wants.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2011): Simple. Ask her "Is this a break that allows us to see other people or not?"
If she won't agree not to see other people during this break, then I would bet she already has someone in mind.
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reader, chickpea2011 +, writes (24 November 2011):
 Hi,
You have not giving us enough details to confirm is she's cheating on you or not? Could be many reasons why she asked you for a break?
Maybe:
1) she really needs time apart?
2) she doesn't feel the same about the relationship, having doubts?
3) were you having difficulties in the relationship? Arguing, fighthing?
4) the worst case scenario, yes she might be cheating?
I cannot understand why she brought up the fact that you cheated on her 3 years ago? It doesn't make sense to me? If you are having difficulties in accepting her decision, if things were fine, and this came unexpected, I think you should talk to her. You have the right to know what's going on.
Good luck
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