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writes: Hi, I am in a bit of situation. I have been with my partner for 14 years and have a 13yr old son. But we do not live together. Strange i know but it works for us. The thing is i have met somebody at work who is just an angel she is everymans perfect partner. My friendship with this lady has grown stronger over the past few weeks but there is a problem. She has a family of her own. She has been with her parther for 17years and has 2 kids. We both have feeling for one another but she goes into guilt trip mode when we are together. She feels that she is cheating on her kids and partner. We obviously only meet up at work or before/after work very discretly. We normally just meet up in the car and talk. We kissed the other day for the first time. The thing is that i have to realise that we are never going to be more than good friend. We value each others friendship more. but i'm finding it hard to cope. I have started writing poems to her and i am writing letters too, This is so out of character for me. Today she has txt me and said that ' there will always be a special place in her heart for me' and that i am a star. She keeps saying that i am really special to her. But can i only be friends with the lady i cant have...???
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reader, confusedgirl6996 +, writes (1 May 2006):
hi im not haveing your problem but i would like to help you.i have a best friend that im in love with but i cant have her i know what it feels like when you find that person that you think has all the answers and lights you up in side when your around them they put a non-stop smile on your face and you just want to have them with you all the time but maybe you should consider pulling back a little like stop writting poems and letters because believe it or not most people want what they cant have and if you show this women that she cant have the attention you give her than most likley she will want it back and if she didnt like you in a more than a friend way or need one on one attention from another man when shes got a family of her own than she wouldnt hang with you like she obviously does believe me if this doesnt help im sorry but i hope it does yours truly confusedgirl6996
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2006): You are addicted to the feelings you get when you are with her. Back off before you mess up everyone's life.
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