A
male
age
36-40,
*oldierAyb
writes: Hi there is this girl at my work and one night me and her got drunk and admitted over the phone we really like each other. Her boyfriend is in uni and she will be going to uni this year. We speak to each other on the phone for like long periods of time. Then we start talking dirty. Now its a month and a bit later and she has been coming round my house and we been kissing each other. The next time she come round we were kissing the feeling each other. Then last night we had sex. But before hand we agreed on been shagging partners. Now when I no its guna b hard bt it will take time." I really like her and i want to be with her. Can someone please give me some addvice or make sence of this situaion. Thank You for every one who will help me out.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (17 January 2007):
Step back for a minute and think how you would feel if she were your girlfriend and she was shagging someone else behind your back? If that doesn't tell you to break this off you have serious problems with self esteem.
CD
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2007): Why can't you get a gf that isn't with someone else. She can't respect herself or her bf if she is going to go on like this. If she has done it to him then in the future she will do it to you. You are all quite young and this is a new experience for you all but someone will get hurt. Just get rid and get one that is free and single.
Take care
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2007): ok so you like this girl...but presumably so does her bf?..
now put yourself in his shoes, would you want to be cheated on? your assisting her in commiting one of the most horrible acts a person can do to another. i suggest you stop any kind or relations with her until shes single, unless your as immoral as she is and happy to lie and cheat!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2007): Why the f*** do u want to go out with a girl that cheats on her boyfriend?!!!! say u do end up going out with her she will probably cheat on u like she is with her current BF. I say walk away now before u end up getting hurt! Sorry for being so blunt but it had to be said!
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