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anonymous
writes:me and my girlfriend have just started going out and we recently slept together, but when she took her top off i could clearly see that she has three nipples, two on one breast. i have tried to ignor it, but it is really freaking me out and i dont know how to talk to her about it.help?
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reader, Mushgirl +, writes (22 June 2007):
 She must be very aware of it too, yet she had the confidence to take her top off in front of you. You, on the other hand are obviously not as sexually confident as she is if this is what kind of thing freaks you out. C'mon, men are meant to like nipples... see it as you're lucky that she's got an extra one!
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (19 June 2007):
 Oh, grow the fuck up. It is more common than you think.
You are not man enough to be having sex yet if THIS freaks you out this much. How would you want her to bring up topics about your penis too you that you do not think is an issue? Treat it the same way.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2007): you're not mature enough to deal with it, so leave her & let her find a real man.
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reader, superfly  +, writes (19 June 2007):
It's call polythelia. Try to understand how she copes with having an extra nipples.
She probably was freaked out when she learned she has extra nipples as well.
Naw, enough of the joking....I think what you can do is be honest with yourself, but also give yourself some time to see if you can get use to her extra nipple, and if not, then you should depart.
If you can cope with it, then everything is going to be fine.
But ask her how she copes with it by seeing it in the mirror, and when around her, tell her to not wear the top at all, and this will help, b/c you can use to the idea of see an extra nipple very fast and get over this uncomfortable feeling very fast.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (19 June 2007):
 Why do you need to talk to her about it? What exactly are you planning to say? Like I said to guy who hated his girlfriend's tatoos: Love 'em or leave her.
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reader, love-him +, writes (19 June 2007):
 Hia babii.. well as u have figured some women do have this problem.. now if you realy like this girl then it shouldnt matter to you but you cant exactly say to her she has to wear a top when u ar having sex because that wont go down well.. i think if u realy like her get over it.. if not, shes not the right girl for yoo.. mail me if u wana talk x x x x
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