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She got with a friend of mine, but kissed me... then kissed him! What's going on?

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Question - (16 July 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 July 2006)
A male , *gga writes:

Last week I met an amazing girl and she is just genuinely nice. Unfortunately she already knew one of the guys there and fancied him. They sort of got together until she found out about his girlfriend.

The guy is a great guy but is a complete idiot to girls. On several occasions he has been and idiot to them. We didn't tell the girl this because she'd be heartbroken.

I became good friends with her and then told her I liked her. She went offish with me and said she just wanted to be mates. Then we got back to normal and the guy she liked called her fat and was an idiot to her again after they had only been okay for a few days.

Then today out of nowhere she kissed me and I was so happy but then as I turned around about 10 minutes later, she is kissing the guy.

Afterwards her friend said sometimes she does it, but after that she didn't talk to him again but kissed me again. She is genuinely nice and doesn't like to hurt people but I just dont know what to do.

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A male reader, ogga +, writes (16 July 2006):

ogga is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I was thinking the same thing but as an update.

She has just told me she fancies me but her friend (hu fancies me) says that she does like me but sh likes the other guy more

but my best mate talked to the girl i like n apparently she sed she likes me but she doesnt want to hurt her friend so i dno.. i think all 3 could be true but itr just keeps getting more confusing

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A female reader, katzkitten United Kingdom +, writes (16 July 2006):

katzkitten agony aunti think she may be doing it to get back at your friend, but dont take my word for this bt put yourself in her position. How would you feel? What would you do? get what im saying? It mite be easier for me to see this as im a girl tho. Mail me and let me know what you think. good luck! x x x

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