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writes: I have been with my girlfriend for 1.5 years - we have a very strong relationship - in the past she has occasionally gone out to parties and taken drugs, she went out the other weekend and did it, had the best time (she says)... I don't like it at all - I have big issues with it, but I don't want this to be the cause of a relationship breakup for a strong and healthy relationship. This is pretty much our only problem - any ideas to help me? At the moment my only idea is to ignore it but if it becomes too frequent then I'll have to bring it up..?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2005): Ask her to stop. If she does, you know she loves you. If she doesn't, then ask if she even tried. If she didn't, break up with her. Tell her you can't take the stress. If she stops after that, get back with her, if you still love her. If she starts up again after you get back together, break up with her and try to forget about her. If you can't, get counseling.
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reader, wwww.datinghaven.com +, writes (19 May 2005):
break up, sounds strange, but if she loves you she would want you back and try to leave the drugs, also will make your relationship stronger if done correctly.How big is the drug problems? Perhaps she needs help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2005): No dont ignore it. Be there for her. Sit down and ask her why. Maybe she takes them to block out a problem. Just let her know you love her and it's hurting her. Help her through and try and get to the bottom of it.
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