New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

She gave me a blowjob and I didn't feel it - it something wrong?

Tagged as: Dating, Sex<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (20 June 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 20 June 2008)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I got a blow job recently. The problem is that i didn't feel it when my girlfriend was sucking on it.

IS something wrong!?

View related questions: blow-job

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (20 June 2008):

LazyGuy agony auntWait a minute, you didn't feel ANYTHING? Yeah then there is something seriously wrong.

If you mean you didn't feel anything sexually, that is a different matter. Try to be specific.

If nothing else the penis is just a part of your body covered with skin sensitive to touch. Try it yourself to see if it is for some reason not feeling touch.

<-- Rate this answer

A male reader, Dr Vendetta United Kingdom +, writes (20 June 2008):

Dr Vendetta agony auntas was already posted numbing agent.

which.. you'd be surprised as several products can do this anyway. cough drops or oral medication.

failing that if there was no tongue and depending on her position you might as well have been sticking it in a bucket.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, littlesuziepie  United States +, writes (20 June 2008):

littlesuziepie  agony auntWas she really going on it? If she was and you still didn't feel it maybe she used a numbing agent to aid in her gag reflex and she used too much and numbed up your dick. Could happen. She could have been way to imbaressed of using it or wanted to impress you into thinking she was great at giving head that she never said a word about it. Do you feel it when you touch yourself? If not then maybe there is a medical issue. If its just when she blows you then its the numb job or like one other said before me she was way to gentel on your genitals.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2008):

Guide her! Use her finger to show her the pressure you need down stairs and ask her to do it on your finger too. You can also ask her if she is ok with watching porn so you can show her how you would like it. Enjoy!

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2008):

Maybe she ws scared she'd hurt you and was going a little too gentle.

Next time just tell her she's doing nicely but that you'd love for her to suck a little harder.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "She gave me a blowjob and I didn't feel it - it something wrong?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0313362000015331!