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*umped 101
writes:I have this friend who I went through a relationship crisis with a couple of years back. She totally helped me through it, I ended up trusting her on a deep level. Then she friend dumped me over an email. She said that we were Kindred souls, but the way we connected was unhealthy, so we should "just let it go" I sent a few emails asking "let what go" SHe would not respond until I sent an emotional email asking her to still be my friend, And she responded "GO AWAY", you are pissing me and my husband off. I am done with this. She was one of my closest friends,and a work associate for many years. I don't get it She friend dumped me through an email and that was the trigger for me in the last relationship crisis I went through, and she knows that being dumped impersonally cracks me up. Reply to this Question
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reader, dumped 101 +, writes (15 September 2008):
dumped 101 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI also forgot to mention that she told me her husband was a homosexual. That she was hurting real bad in her relationship, and that she thought I was brilliant and she wanted to make out with me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2008): You know... I'd just show up on her doorstep one day. Unannounced, so she can't make plans at all.Just knock on the door and walk in when she opens it. Tell her you want to understand why exactly she felt the need to dump you off via an email. And why she couldn't work up the guts to say it to your face.And tell her that she can't bring her husband into it because that is irrelevant.Flynn 24
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reader, dumped 101 +, writes (15 September 2008):
dumped 101 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionGood insight. Thank you, I see the situation a lot more clearly. Sometimes you just need to talk about it outside the context of the relationship. It definitely was an emotional affair when I put all of the details together. It is best for everyone that I just walk away, respect my friends wishes, and live and let live.
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