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anonymous
writes:Hi,I'm a male 21, she is a female 19.Please note we are not together but she treats me emotionally like a boyfriend, we just haven't had any physical intimacy. I want things to develop naturally to ensure a strong emotional bond.After an absence of about a month from each other (due to work commitments) she asked me to go clubbing with her, despite it not really being my thing since I don't drink and aren't much of a dancer I agreed to see her.This guy kept following us around the club, despite me being in her company.Upon asking her she said that he was freaking her out. He forced a drink on her while I was talking to a friend (I have no idea but this could've been spiked), upon my return she was heavily under the influence of drink (or the cocktail of whatever used to spike). The guy came right over under my nose and held her infront of him, looking into her eyes. I completely snapped (something which goes against my personality) and manhandled him to break it up. Her reaction was very hurtful, asking me what right I had to do such a thing.For the rest of the night she outrageously flirted with every guy that came up to her. It got to a point where I felt physically ill and I was actually shaking from shock.The next morning she told me that she couldn't remember a thing and that she was sorry. That said I'm still heart broken and I don't know if I believe her. Things were going so strong before this happened and I really don't know what to do. Before this happened I had fallen completely for her (it's taken me 3 years to be able to open my heart to someone again).Please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009): This sounds as though her drink was actually spiked.if she doesnt normally behave like this especially around you then yes its possible her drink was spiked especially when you say this guy kept following her when it was obvious she was with you.i suggest you dont blame her.it wasnt her fault if her drink was spiked.maybe you could get her to go to the police? i wouldnt worry about it because she didnt do anything and she says she doesnt remember it and shes apologised so i suggest you just try and just forget about it.
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