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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: hi my problem is that i love my friend so much and she does too but i feel she doesn't want this love because we both girls! i know that but it doesn't matter for me, and what makes me sad and Confused is that she sometimes treats me well and lets me know that she loves me a lot and think of me all the time!what should i do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2009): thanks a lot Emily! I'll do what you said and hope things get well.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (15 December 2009):
She's confused too.
It's hard having a big box of chocolate in front of you when you know how people would treat you if they saw you eating from it.
She's having the occasional sneaky nibble because she wants you.
Your best bet is just to be strong and tell her you respect her choice to stay in the closet. The cut contact and move on.
Stop torturing yourself and her and end this.
If she changes her mind when she sees what she's losing then she'll come back to you.
Good Luck!! xx
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