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writes:Hi im 47 and my ex girlfriend is 55 we were together for 2 years i left a partner and three kids for this lady now she has kicked me out because she felt that i was putting a lot of pressure on her cause we used to argue every weekend because i was jealous when she was talking to other guys even when i knew deep down that she would'nt do anything to hurt me and i was reading to much into it. She said she needed time and space to sort things out i.e. her job and money issues.Perhaps having to sell her house but its been three months now not long i know but when you love someone so much it hurts every day being without them, she said she knows that i love her a lot but i should have tried harder before to change my ways. We do talk to each other now and then but when i ask her for us to try again she just says its too late and she doesn't think i can change. I just dont know what more i can do.like i say i love her so much and would do anything for her. Any ideas???
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (26 May 2010):
 In addition, I think you should try a self-help course on overcoming insecurity. It will help if she sees you are working on the problem that broke you two up.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (26 May 2010):
 Make her your priority . Take an active interest in what she is doing everyday and be there to offer your help or your hand or your company.
In time she will see the change in you .
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (26 May 2010):
 Mmmm that is a tricky one for you! I guess the best thing would be to be very chivalrous. Take her flowers, do things around the house for her without being asked. Take her out for coffee, lunch or dinner spontaneously. Send her a card telling her you love her and she is so important to you. Shout her a trip to a day spa. Take her to a chick flick etc. Even as small as opening doors for her. I love it when my husband cleans try that too.
Keep in touch your gonna be ok!
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reader, djo +, writes (25 May 2010):
djo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI hear what your saying but I dont know what she wants and she often saids she dont know what she wants.Im scared I will loose her.I try giving her time and space but its hard.love her so much.
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reader, Moo's Mum +, writes (24 May 2010):
You have to prove to her that you can change by being the guy she wants you to be. It takes time you have to put in the hard yards to get results.
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