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*mbrellacorp
writes:Hi, I really like this girl in college but she doesn't even know I exist, we are in the same class together but never talked, help please! Reply to this Question
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reader, bemused  +, writes (23 November 2008):
 You have written a short and to the point post but there is not a lot of other info you give. You say this girl does not know you exist so that is either your low self esteem talking or you have not made it apparent to her in any way that you are interested so cut her some slack if she may not be aware of your attraction. Have you been doing anything which send out signals that you are interested? Do you share any classes with her? If you do, there is group work in the course work so could you ensure that you are both in the same group in the future. I would suggest that you just'be in her orbit' a bit. Could you find a way to go to the pub with her one night, maybe with a group of people so the situation will not be pressure filled. Let her know what you are all about and be who you are, no games as self respecting women do not like them. Keep the early conversations casual and light and move slowly. You should be able to tell if the interest in mutual. It would be great if it is but love can be a gamble sometimes. Bear in mind that she may have someone else already or may not be immediately interested BUT there will be someone out there who will be even if she is not. Good luck and keep us posted.
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