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writes:Hi, me and my partner have been together for over 3 years, everything was going great, we spent 2 weeks on holiday in florida in april, and spoke about going futher into the relationship, marrage, moving in and so on. We also run owr own mobile disco business, 2 weeks ago we had an argument at the disco, and she says she doesn't know if she still wants to be with me, she had not been acting her self for the last 2 week, i spoke to her mum and her mum said she has not been her self, she is always tired and currently having tests to see why, she does not seem very positive about any thing, she currently hates her job and cant find a new one and a member of the family is ill.This makes me think maybe she is suffering from depression, i am giveing her some space that she has asked for but its driving me crazy because i love her soo much,ive given her a teddy bear and some flowers and a letter saying i love u and im here for you, but she hasn't replyed, please help me, as she is my best friend and girlfreind she is my soulmate i know she is the one for me!Thanks J.J
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008): People tend to go through depression at least after two weeks of going through a rough time. Under that time its unlikely to be depression.Those are the stages that happened to me too when I started becoming depressed...If shes having tests, I suggest you wait for them. You can ask her mum what you think is the best thing to do for her because she seems to be the one having the contact with her. Try and tell her how much you love her through her mother and hopefully she'll start talking to you. Make it known that you want to support her, you want to be with her but you have to also realize that she might need more than a little bit of space. Just make it known to her.If she isn't communicating with you its difficult to do much more.
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