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writes:well when my ex found out i had a girlfriend she was suprised and started asking me when i went out with her and that she wanted a picture of her then she kept calling and texting me all the time and most of the time i didnt answer her back and she thought i changed my number. but when i dumped my new girlfriend cause she was being unfaithful my ex was suprised. she sent me a birthday card because she lives down south now and i sometimes chat to her on msn and when she found out i started going back out with the girl i dumped my ex was saying things like how did this happen and she was wanting to be friends with her and the next day she was telling me how much she hates being single and she started getting angry with me for no reason and she told me to leave her alone but i wasnt doing anything shes the one who always talks to me. but the next day she said sorry and we were just talking about random things. then when i was on msn she told me she has got a boyfriend and i thought she was lying so i told her i didnt beleive her and she said she has and was also saying that he is better than me and i told her she is not being very nice for saying that and she was being quite mean to me cause i said sorry for not believing her and she said yeah whatever apology not accepted and she told me to leave her alone and i said to her u never loved me. and when i got back online she took me off her contact list so might of blocked me or deleted me. whats wrong with her please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009): ive tryed talking to her but she is still ingnoring me and hasnt added me back on msn will she ever talk to me again
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reader, softtouchmale2003  +, writes (19 October 2009):
 You two either need to keep seeing each other F2F, or just leave each other alone.
What's going on is simple. Like Satindesire said. A total failure of communications BOTH WAYS!
No one can understand what you wrote, because neither one of the two of you has a clue what the other's talking about.
And we don't know either.
It sounds like two kids fighting over ... God knows what!
If she moved "down South" how far away? And can you two just see each other and actually talk to each other?
You can't have love between two people if you don't communicate you need to build trust, emotional connections and intimacy and you can't do that using "connections" on MSN or any other webspace area. Get real! Humans are supposed to be interpersonal. That means up close and toe-to-toe personal.
If you two are hiding behind electronic gadgets, then there's no way you can ever see each other, touch each other and be with each other like normal human beings.
If she deleted you off her MSN or whatever page, she's being childish. And, if you take that as a bad sign, guess what, so too are you being childish.
If the two of you actually do care about each other, then spend time TOGETHER, IN PERSON, and BE A COUPLE. Not a couple of compu-geeks deleting names off a webspace page as if, wow, that makes the other one disappear out of the universe. That's crazy.
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