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She dates the bad boys but I want to show her what a nice guy is like!

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Question - (23 November 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 23 November 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, *dK-WhO-I-Am writes:

ok i got back with my ex whom i love with all my heart and i could not bare too lose her agien she is the kinda girl who dates guys that treat her like shit im realy nice too her and could not bare too treat her this way i wanna know what i could do to make her more attracted to me and make her want to be with me more so are realshinship dosnt fail again?

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A male reader, IdK-WhO-I-Am United States +, writes (23 November 2010):

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well she knows im a nice guy and she ses she realy likes me we get along realy well and i have even talked to her about this very thing she knows she hass always dated assholes and she ses that is not what she wants any more butt idk what to do to make sure that she means that

like i sed this girl means every thing too me i asked her too marry me and she sed yes i just wanna make she dosnt losse intrest in me

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2010):

Oh man do not waste your time chasing women like that. They have a certain type and thats it. Unless you become the a-hole overnite...this woman wont like you lol. I sense she's the type that likes to be treated like dirt anyway. trust me man...forget this girl...from a stranger to stranger...shes a waste of absolute time. Set the sun on this brod. Good luck.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2010):

She does not want to be treated well. You can't really do anything at this point.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2010):

Well I've already found out from experience that being the nice guy won't work out as you might think she might be dating these "bad boys" because she wants to be dominated and wants someone who is confident and strong now she probably sees these asses as someone who can protect her physicly but they never protected her emotionally now I'm not saying to be a dick to make her more attracted to you just be more independent be confident act like you can handle yourself also try to be more protective of her not to much but just enough to make her see that she is yours and no one elses you can be nice and treat her right but don't be too nice as in sensitive or she'll think your gay or a girl trust me I know because the similar crap happened to me now me and my gf are both happy hope I helped and good luck with your gf

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