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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm a guy who puts pride first most of the time. I had a girlfriend, we've been together for 2 and a half year. I know i was not a good boyfriend for her but she still loved me. Now we broke up, she said she was tired of pain. I know I was wrong and I want to correct my mistakes. But before I gt the chance to, we broke up. It hurts so bad that I cant sleep, I cant eat. All I wanna do is to make her feel that I changed. I want her back. She told me she still loves me, she even wanna cry seeing me like this, making my self look stupid, waiting for her all day outside their house or school. She still love me but she is afraid and tired of pain. What should I do? What should I say? I want her back. Please. I love her so much with all my life. I cant live without her. Promises wont make her believe. Please help me. :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2010): Pride comes before the fall...always remember that. Also, if you haven't changed your "prideful" ways in 2 1/2 years, you are not going to all of a sudden change them. It's not like this is a phase but rather it speaks to your character--which can't be easily "changed." You are missing your ex right now and you know she was probably the best woman that ever stepped foot into your life and now that she is gone, you regret it....who knows how you will treat her if she comes back to you. I know you are very young, but character is character and seldom do people change for the better in certain aspects. I am certain you just didn't develope this "pride" characteristic overnight. I think you need to work not allowing your pride get the best of you....you did not go into vivid details about how you allowed pride to destroy your relationship, but pride it NOT a good trait to have esp. when you are in a relationship with a great person.
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