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writes:I met a girl at work about a month ago and we flirted, A few days later SHE brought up hanging out with me and when I brought up I might be quitting for a better job (pay) and she said dont leave because she'll miss me :O.Well I got her home phone number (not her cell because its "broken") and when I called her family said she was out. Next time I saw her is when things started to break down. She told me "yeah im sorry but im always out with friend" and when I asked how can a time be made to hang out if shes always out her response was "im always out with friends". Now she ignores me and I started to ignore her back.WHAT happened?!
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reader, porkchop.xo  +, writes (20 October 2008):
 Hmmm? This is weird. My thoughts are you maybe hurt her when she asked to hang out and you responded with "I might be quiting for a better job"
1. You might have offended her, if she has the same job.
2. She asked to hang out and you made it seem like you can't because you are getting a different job. Why couldn't you two stay friends even if you aren't at the same workplace?
You're ignoring her? Don't think so! you've just stopped trying. Maybe an appology for offended her, and say that what you really meant to say was that you want to get to know her, but you are thinking about getting a new job, so you won't be seeing her as often.
Maybe I'm totally wrong, but I know I would be offended if someone had the same job as me and made it seem like it wasn't a very good job, when I actually really liked it. Anyways good luck :)
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