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30-35,
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writes:i am a college student and i put away all my fears and decided to trust my boyfriend, but recently while he was on face-book he began talking to this girl from his neighborhood,i was in his arms while he was talking to her, she started telling him how much she wants him when he comes home from college, he told her that he has a girlfriend and she said that she has a boyfriend too and does not care, she asked him if she could have him when he comes home and he logged off... i was and still am so hurt. the thing is we will soon be on holiday and hes going home, we live a good distance from each other, can i trust him?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (21 May 2010):
 If you want to be in a relationship with him you need to trust him. If you can't trust him you should let him go. No need for you to get hurt over this girl though! Your boyfriend didn't flirt with her, and he said no. He can not control who throws themselves at him, he can only control his own actions. He logged off when they were talking online, so hopefully he will push her off when he goes back home as well.
Trust him. If you later find reasons to not trust, take action. But for now there is no reason not to trust.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2010): i can understand your insecurity and hurt. The only way to resolve these issues is to talk to him before he leaves for break. Lay out your fears and concerns in a mature manner, and ask the questions you want to know. Be prepared to hear things you don't want to hear...Hopefully his answers quell your worries.
Contrary to popular belief, no man can be 'stolen'. If it is YOU he wants, he will stay yours regardless of the distance or this intrusive girl. Good luck.
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