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writes:I wanted my wife to shave her private area, but she says it is because I want her to look like the porn stars. I would do the same. Anybody have an opinion on this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2008): Tell her to be trimmed at least... it's much better not just for sex but also for general hygeine. Its a bit like doing armpits... does she not do the armpits and wear cut sleaves or swimming costumes... I am sure those are also done by porn stars. Generally, it keeps that area tidy and away from the entangles. She can wear undergarments without getting hurt.I dont understand why some women make such a big issue out of it....Its ok for them to get a hair do, clouring, cleaning, trimming, styling what not... to look nice...the moment it comes to down below they always bring the porn stars in between.
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reader, love-him  +, writes (8 February 2008):
 Hey hon, you should make sure she knows and believes and trusts you that you want her to do this not because of porn stars.. let her feel comfortable at all times!! feel free to mail me at any time xx
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reader, Mystical +, writes (8 February 2008):
I think you should assure your wife that it isn't for that reason!! However you have to repest her decision, she may be nervous about shaving, or may have shaved before and disliked how she looks down there!! Dont pressure your wife though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2008): My wife and I both keep ourselves trimmed down there. Don't have to shave completely, just keep the hair short. It keeps ones nose from getting tickled and from getting hair in your mouth. My wife has been doing it for 30 years. One of her past boyfriends asked her to do it. The other girlfriends I had back then also kept themselves trimmed. It's not only sexy but also practical.
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reader, Cherriepie +, writes (8 February 2008):
 You gotta tell her thats its normal. You obviously cant prove it to her by showing her porn...that defeats the purpose. So do as suggested by the previous post, which is a great suggestion...have her ask us here directly. I am not a porn star and I shave most of the time or have it trimmed real tight. It does feel better, and maybe when she does it she will like it too. Having it smooth is real sexy too, and whats wrong with being sexy...its for your eyes only after all!
She suffers from what a lot of women suffer..which is insecurity about porn. SHe thinks you are comparing her to the porn stars...which I know is dumb, but thats how she is thinking. She lacks confidence in herself, and maybe you can help her in that department by always complimenting her saying how beaitiful she is...shaved or unshaved.
Being shaved has been the fashion now for years...i know that before my time women never shaved down there...and when I see pictures of how hairy some women looked it grosses me out! yuch! Shaved not only looks sexier, its looks healthier. I'm bisexual too...and i love my pertners shaved too.
Baby, you should take the lead and shave yourself first and have her feel it...I will bet she likes it..and then she might try it herself.
And why dont you help her shave it....I let my boyfriend shave me too..and it always leads to some nice oral after. You can do the same...how can she resist!
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (8 February 2008):
 if your wife feels uncomfortable shaving herself then i think that you should accept her point of view on this matter, i really do not think you should force her into doing anything against her will, if you try to bully her, she will more than likely retaliate, if you value your marriage then you should let the matter go, and continue to enjoy your life happily together, after all if you love her then you should be content with the way she is, and not upset her with your fantasy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2008): Do you do the same? Do you shave your private area? Because men should too. You know she should ask the ladies on this site, she would be surprised that a lot of women do this, I love the way it feels, I can never go back, mind you I have been doing this since I was 15 years old, Im 43 now I love it...so much cleaner! Sexier, and Im not a Porn Star..
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