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Should I pick up the next time he calls?

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Question - (7 October 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 October 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

HELLO ! everyone. Ok I have been talking to a guy for about a month now we've only went out once but we've had sex twice. He has a kid and a demanding job. I don't really see him and hardly talk to him. But everytime he time he hits me up I pick up the phone and I'm right back to where I started. I don't thinks he ready for anything serious cause I told him that I like him and made an effort to show me that he likes me. I wanna know if the next time he calls do I pick up?

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A female reader, xanthic United States +, writes (9 October 2009):

xanthic agony auntI agree with the previous poster, right now you're making yourself too available. You're teaching him to see you as something easy and convenient, not someone he has to put effort towards and win over. Distance yourself a bit, see what he does.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2009):

I wouldn't I would ignore him for a bit. Guys hate that, trust me. At the moment he knows he can have you any time he wants. Maybe just ignore his call, text him back after a day or two, just say you've been busy and what did he want. Show him you have a life without him. He'll soon be more eager.

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