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writes: At the end of 2006 i met this guy, he got my number off my friend, we started texting and would meet up in the pub then we had sex and i never heard from him again. I'd see him around but we never spoke then like 6 months later i'd get random texts off him saying hi and missed calls but i never replied. Eventually we started taling again when we saw each other but nothing deep as we'd both be drunk. On New Years eve we were at the same party and we had a good talk, sorted out all the past and made friends. He text me the next day and i went to the pub with him and then back to his but nothing happened, i went to his 2 more nights where we just stayed up all night talked had fun and a laugh and found out we had tons in common, he never even tried to make a move on me. The next time i went we had sex, his attitude never changed we got on perfect. As i left he told me to text him, so the next day i did and we text a couple of times since then although always with me texting first but we were still getting on great. But now hes stopped texting back and i'm so confused! He told me that what he wanted for 2008 was a girlfriend and that he wanted her to be exactly like me, we had so much fun together and were perfect for each other. So what happened? I can't ask him because he's not replying and i don't want to look desperate. Do men just need space to pursue the girl themselves? Shall i just wait and see if he gets in touch with me? I'll see him around eventually shall i just pretend nothing happened?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 January 2008):
 He could be facing some work related problems or personal problems or he is sick.
Why not call him up or write to him to inquire his wellbeing. It is not clingy. It is about your concern for him.
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reader, ptownpetey87  +, writes (14 January 2008):
 no no no no... men do not need space to persue a girl... thats a huge mistake for a woman to think. all guys want is that sign, that look, or that expression that tells him that you (the girl) are intrested. If a girl can sucessfully communicate that without being too forward or uncomfortable.... the rest is easy sailings from there.
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