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Sexy stud, or sex dud

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Question - (7 August 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 August 2011)
A male United States age 36-40, *totheluvwish95 writes:

Good day... I never went public about this before, but this site seems really good for people to express their relationships. Someone help me out here...

I think I'm strugglin' with e.d. . MY OWN methods have not worked for me thus far. I can get rock hard when I'm alone, when I'm watchin' porn, or early in the mornin', or even when I'm near my partner, but when it comes time for me to really lay the lumber, I go soft (like within a minute)...

Sometimes I wanna hate myself...

The worst is when you know ur in a temporary relationship and you need to give it ur best right then and there, but the "conflict" happens. DAMN!!!! I'm not always in the situation where I have alot of time for the "extra 4-play" (or in a situation where MY WOMEN want to engage in the extra 4-play) so I really need to learn to be SITUATIONALLY-VERSATILE with my moments. Understandably, my women grow impatient with me over time (I've been dumped a few times too). What a blow to the sexual ego :-(

I always put the blame on myself to not make the lady feel bad, but that might be a "bad thing" for ME, right? Yet, I'm a perfectionalist and like to always be great in ANY situation. I am very healthy and I take pride in being a great lover.

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Thx in advance... :)

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A male reader, MikeEa1 Australia +, writes (8 August 2011):

MikeEa1 agony auntmake them come first and then finish yourself off. it takes the pressure away and then next time it'll work for you.

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