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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am 30 years old and over the last 8 months, I have been consistently hitting by gay thoughts and also straight sex ones. Two days back, I masturbated imagining myself being female porn star and having sex with guys. I have been addicted to porn for over six years . So I am wondering whether I am gay, straight or bi-sexual . I am also stuck in my room since I have been jobless for the last one year, and having no healthy activity . Now both man and woman turn me big time. I don't like these gay thoughts and I am wondering If I were gay, then how come It struck my mind now when I am 30 years old? Oh yeah I had distance relationship with girl with a girl with whom I had phone sex but nothing more that that. I get the feeling since I can't find girlfriend, my mind might have started to explore other side of sexual spectrum ? I am feeling ashamed on having masturbated on that stupid thoughts . Can too much heterosexual porn can swing one mind both ways? Please help me guys!
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reader, GeminChanel  +, writes (6 August 2011):
 I think ur just sexually fluid. I wouldn't call u gay or bi though. If u've never been with a man u wouldn't know as far as sex goes. But if ur thinking about enough, it'll eventually happen. Just have fun and see what comes out of it. U'll figure it out in the end. To tell u the truth, I'm guilty of watching gay porn. I'm a lesbian and I hate lesbian porn. it's so fake. Even straight porn. They spit on the girls and it just disgust me. In gay porn they don't do all of that extra stuff. That doesn't make me anything except for a little weird, but I'm ok with that. Don't be too hard on urself. Good luck on ur 'sexual orientation' journey!
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