A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Ive been dating a girl for over a year now , Im a virgin and she is not . She knows I want sex and its not just because im horny its because im a 22 year old who has waited for the right girl to come into my life and I can share that moment with . She said she just cant take my virginity . But she has told me she has had sex with other virgins and she does go into detail way to much about her past sex life. she doesnt like kissing or touching . she says shes just not like that. But i see pictures of her and her old boyfriends kissing in public and all over eachother and nothing like that with us. she always says shell give me head and oral stuff but it never seems to come around. and when i ask about it she gets all mad . so if i dont hint around then it never happens. and if i do . then she gets really pissed off like shes gonna break up with me . How can she have sex with every other man in her life but me . she says im the best guy shes ever had in her life . ive treated her the best. She says I hint around or ask for sex(ive never came out and said it ) more than any other boyfriend. but I just ask to mess around and ill hint about it. she says sex changes things. alot of things. she broke up with her other boyfriends because they were just idiots. treated her bad and everything else. I asked her if sex was the reason they broke up she said definitely not . he was just a dick or something like that. so long story short. shell have sex with everyone else before but she wont with me. and if something happened between us i know she would have sex with the next guy ? how can I come across and tell her I want to receive oral or sex without her getting mad. ( and keep in mind she doesnt like the whole touchy feely kinda thing. so i cant initiate it by touching her) any help ?
View related questions:
broke up, her past, horny, kissing, sex life Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, brooklynqueen +, writes (18 July 2010):
Dump her and date someone who respects you more and that will be special when you have that experience. She sounds like a bitch.
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2010): She has been trained wrong. Some girls screw the wrong guys for the wrong reasons long enough and pretty soon they won't screw the right guys for the right reasons.
...............................
A
male
reader, Kizhak322  +, writes (12 June 2010):
 you need to ask why she wont have sex with you.
ask her why specifically she wont take your virginity and ask if theres any reason which is valid over your love. Nothing is ever solved without finding the route of the problem so make sure you talk softly and calmly, and dont rest until your mind is put at rest as to why she will not
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2010): maybe she her past boyfriends had sex with her and dumped her, beacuse they got what they wanted from her, and maybe she just thinks thats what you will do to her, so she doesnt want to do it with you, so she doesnt loose you. At least thats of my understanding. But she should at least give you a reason why.
...............................
|
