A
male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: is it incest to have sex with aunt who is not your blood type.
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reader, tux +, writes (23 May 2009):
First of all, how old is your aunt? It's easy to assume she is way older than you, but there are a lot of circumstances that can make your non-blood aunt the same age or younger than you, just as there are ways to have a blood aunt to be younger than you..
But I do agree with the first poster that it can be hard because there can still be a bond that is hard to break and distance yourself from. Sometimes bonds between non-blood relatives may be stronger than blood relatives.. Just always remember that Blood means nothing except that you might need a bandage.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2009): No, but there should be a psychological bond of family with this "aunt". An aunt is a person who is usually significantly older that acts as a spiritual advisor in addition to your parents and other relatives. To be sexually attracted to someone of that significance is unusual.You are young, so it is perfectly natural to admire and be attracted to older women. It is understandable that you might find this sort of person amongst your close family friends. However, while my intention is not to undermine you, you don't have a lot of experience with your sexual feelings. Interpreting your sexual and emotional feelings comes with age and experience, we all go through this.I would stay clear of confronting this person about your feelings since it might make people feel awkward. Hold off at least for 15-20 years and by then your "aunt" will no doubt be very flattered by your past admiration for her.
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