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Relationship with my former teacher

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Question - (23 May 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *sk The Leprechaun writes:

I'm really confused right now, and just need a second unbiased opinion.

Basically I'm contemplating what kind of a relationship I'm going to have with my now former teacher.professional, personal, or VERY personal.

I have always liked her, a couple of years ago, I started falling in love with her.

I'm going to college in september. Today was our unnoficial last day. Mass Shirt signing session, but I'd forgotten to bring a spare shirt to get everyone to sign. A couple of other people had done this and they had taken their shirts off and just worn their low v neck jumpers. So I did the same. She was teaching our last lesson. I walked in first, shirtless, she smiled and told me she was going to make me "strip off" right infront of her. which is a bit extreme as all i had to do was take off a jumper and put a shirt on. But just then everyone else came in including the other 2 who were shirtless. Then she told the 3 of us to finish signing then go out and change. I got her to sign mine. I got about 40 messages. Hers was the only one that didn't say good bye or I'm going to miss you. It was the only one that said keep in touch. I'm not sure what she means by that. She didn't say anything like that on anyone else's shirt.

my form teacher said "I'll miss you, come back (to school) and see US" but I don't think the teacher I'm talking about means the same thing. She gave me her phone number, for a start, thats pretty personal. I can't describe it but she treats me differently to everyone else. Almost like I'm not one of them. And then sometimes she does things that make me think maybe she's wants more than just friendship. She's stripped down to her underwear infront (getting changed not for no apparent reason) of me and only me before, she's always watching me, always touching me, whether it be putting a hand on my shoulder or putting a hand on my ass, patting me on the back or playing with my bra straps, putting her arm round me or holding my hand. She told me I was the best she ever had, she meant best student but she knew what I was thinking.

If she just wants friendship, (which I would still love) how do i go about keeping in touch? I'm terrible at that when it comes to my friends. And it's not like I can just ask her if she wants to go shopping or whatever, or can I?

If she wants more than friendship does it matter since she's not my teacher anymore?

what do you think she wants?

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A female reader, heartbreakid New Zealand +, writes (23 May 2009):

what are you waiting for? try it :)

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