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*osehanna
writes:how to leave loveless and sexless,is that possible?I've been married for 6 year now,we hav 6 year girl.the first 2 year we had a very healthy relationship but 4 year was just a mess in sexcuall way,after we got married he wanted sex always,i mean anytime, anywhare but after 2 years he even dont want to look in my eyes while we got in the bed,he sleep direct soon he get in the bed and farmore he always face the opposite side of me and that's killing me.to be honnest we can last for a month without sex or even more sometimes,he's a very good friend, caring,understanding but am not sure about honnest anymore,once i catched him with online sex and we talked about it but i dont know wheather he still doing it because he changed all password in all his sites which i c'd reach.From all those problems i went out once after we hard argument and i met someone, i had a great time with him but the point of view is that i had to go back home for the sake of my daughter,i'v been dating this guy for 2 years now and the time am with him i feel like i hav it all, and he always say the same to me,now, to be honnest am not in love with my husband anymore and i hav nothing left for him in my heart that i can say i will try my best to make it up to my married.the big question is,should i stay loveless and sexless for sake of my daughter or shuold i dirvoce and start fresh?am just standing still like water in a bowl with no direction flow.please help,am in a big mess of taking dicitionthanks for reading Reply to this Question
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (20 December 2009):
 it def sounds like its time for you to move on you have been having an affair for 2 years and your husband hasnt noticed that means he doesnt care pack up get out and divorce him because your not in a marriage your just living with some guy
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (20 December 2009):
If your marriage is over, then you need to end it and make a fresh start. Don't stay for the sake of your daughter, because she will know how you feel. And you do deserve to be happy.
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