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Sex is so routine...how can we make things more happy and exciting between us?

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Question - (10 November 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 November 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

Relationship between me and my fiancee of 15 months is becoming too routine and its like we are becoming bored of each other. We are buying a house and suppose to be moving in together after Xmas and she seems real scared of it in case we get bored of each other. Shes never lived with someone before and neither have I, but im more independant than her and shes more child like yet we are both in our mid 30s.

The other night we broke up cause we felt that our relationship was too routine as we dont go anywhere or do anything exciting, and sex has really phased out between us.

We decided after talking that we would give things one more chance, but things need to get more exciting and happy together. How can we make things more exciting in our relationship? Its just we both have issues in our own lives at present and we need more happiness and excitement to make a difference. All the time we're just talking bout things for the house. Its like our relationship has moved very fast and we didnt even get to know one another yet we do love each other very much. Given that we said we would give this one last chance, how can we make this work? How can we make things more happy and exciting between us? Should we just go our separate ways or is there a chance really left for us to succeed given our situation. Really need some help here please!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2006):

I read magazines like Cosmopolitan and the have some really interesting tips for spcing up your sex life. Me and my husband never get bored!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006):

ever heard of ann summers

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