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writes:Me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 and half years. At first we used to have sex all day, where ever we could. lots of days we spent the whole day in bed.Then our jobs meant we couldnt see each other as often, but when we did we still had sex for as long as we could.Now we only seem to have sex once a month if I'm lucky. And now, the minute she cums, thats it! No more sex. She gets up and gets dressed. Whats going on with her? Its been like this for 2 years now! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2011): sounds like there's a problem. You need to try and get her to talk about the relationship with you.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2011): The fact that she gets up and gets dressed straight away should be of a bigger concern. Bring that up with her before anything else. It could be she has met someone at work...
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2011): You'll have to talk with her to find out. Maybe sex is just another unwelcome task. Maybe she thinks all men want is sex rather than sex as part of a physically intimate encounter.
Hopefully she's not playing some game, paying you back for a lack of romance or something. But again, talking is the only way to discover that.
You've also got to be a bit honest with yourself. If you've been hassling her for sex than you can hardly expect her to give it to you with grace.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2011): I know this probably isn't entirely the case, as there seems to be lots of other factors, but for me sometimes it's uncomfortable to keep going after I've orgasmed. It's too intense, so we normally change to a position that has less stimulation. It sounds to me like there is a lot of other stuff going considering she doesn't even want to cuddle!
Good luck with it!
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