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Sex is getting stale with him. How can we change this?

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Question - (23 June 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 June 2011)
A female Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I love my boyfriend of 3 years very much. We have sex quite regularly, usually whenever we see each other. However, I am finding it's becoming quite stale and it doesn't really excite me anymore. What can I/we do to change it? I've tried new underwear etc but that only pays off for one session. Help!

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A female reader, angelDlite United Kingdom +, writes (23 June 2011):

angelDlite agony auntpeople are not naturally designed to be monogamous so this is a problem for many people! there is plenty of other stuff you can do. i like older than dirts idea for role play, you and him going out separately, meeting up in a bar and having a 'once night stand' with each other. sex outdoors (some where very secluded though), sex toys, new positions, try having sex a bit less. tease each other but don't have sex every time, sexy phone calls in between dates, sexy texts

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A female reader, RedAthena United States +, writes (23 June 2011):

RedAthena agony auntGo online and search for ideas on new positions!

Play a game of hide and seek where the prize is oral..or...

Live out a fantasy, or come as close to it as possible, that you have said you were always going to do..but never bothered.

Order a new book on tantric sex and experiment.

Take turns being blindfolded, tied up, etc.

Go to a different room if you always go to the bedroom..or outdoors weather and privacy permitting..

Sometimes just going on a short holiday recharges things.

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (23 June 2011):

olderthandirt agony auntTry role playing..you become a different person for a day then he does. you can be the nieghborhood slut once and he's the delivery man..you know role playing

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