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Sex during a women's period?

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Question - (5 November 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 8 November 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i have a question, for both male and females, the question for female is when you on your period would u want to please your boyfriend if he wanted sex and for males will you pressure your girlfriend to please you when she on her period

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2010):

It all depends if you are in the mood, and a female orgasm causes the uterus to contract and expell blood therefore helping end your period somewhat earlier, also an orgasm releases endorphins in the brain that relieve headaches and irritability, so why not? Also some women have increased libido during menstruation and therefore will be in the mood, just try it and see if to like it, if it is too dirty for you then just have sex in the shower.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010):

it's called a strawberry dip, and you will have to change the sheets afterwards, and both shower afterwards, but it causes no other harm. And is part of the sensual range of sexual practices that loving couples indulge in if both willingly want to do it. Many women dont like it. Some men dont like it. But the couples who do enjoy it look forward to it. If a couple are in mutual agreement it is fine. But if there is any doubt or reservations in someone's mind about it, then it should not go ahead. But it's not illegal. And causes no harm and no pain. And many people enjoy the sensuality of it. Just never do it on the carpet and never on an upholstered sofa as professional cleaners will have to be called in. Some pagan societies of old made up superstitions and lies about the woman being unclean. But a menstruating woman who showers daily is no more and no less clean than any other woman

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (6 November 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntDepends on how badly I'm PMSing that day..

First 2 days of my period are the worst, and I can't be bothered by anybody. The third day, if I was horny then I would please my husband if he asked for it. Now when I'm off my period then game on.

There's some girls who like to have sex on their period and don't mind pleasing their men even though they won't be receiving. With that being said, I know of a guy who goes down on a girl during that time. Yuck! Then, there's the other girls who just want to lie around all day in their Victoria's Secret pajamas with a heating pad resting on their lower abdomen, in which a blow job is out of the question.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010):

I wouldn't have sex when i'm on my period. But like they always say, "if a horse can tred in mud, you can tred in blood". But do whatever makes you comfortable. And if he's down with it, and your down with it, then there shouldn't be a problem.

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (5 November 2010):

petina1 agony auntSome girls have pains and are very uncomfortable when they are on their periods, bloated, headaches, pains, cramps,feeling emotional, etc etc. It is an individual thing. When you are with the right one then it's something you sort out together. I'ts not the end of the world to have a week off from sex once every month. Good luck!

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A male reader, Odds United States +, writes (5 November 2010):

Odds agony auntDepends on what you mean by "pressure." If you mean, would I make it clear that I'm horny and want satisfaction, then yes - that's called being honest and open. But I would also be clear that I'm not going to break up with her or anything like that if she's not in the mood.

That's why I try to only date girls who can hear about my feelings without feeling like they *have* to do something, but might *want* to.

Then again, though, every girl I've ever dated was pretty horny on her period anyway. Not sure if that's normal.

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