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writes: Hi my name is Maya. Whenever I have sex with my boyfriend, I don't feel a thing. I just feel normal and I never told him that. Is there anything wrong with me? I don't know what sex feels like. Please help me. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, bonym +, writes (10 June 2006):
My dear I really dont think this is a case of different positions, you go on top, he takes you from behind etc etc, well I am certainly not going to advise you on positions, have you thought that perhaps you are not suited to him? Do you love him? Does he love you? I mean sex is not just about pleasure, its about relationship and intimacy, so I totally agree with the first readers comments. If you care about each other, you will feel something, its as simple as that. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2006): I would definately agree with the last post. Sex has alot to do with the mind. Also if you meant you don't feel anything as in you can't really feel much physically inside as you're so lubricated (by the way I know it sounds a bit graphic!) then you should consider different positions (ie holding your legs closer together or doggy style). Good luck!
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reader, sibaan +, writes (10 June 2006):
try doing it differently. if he stands behind you and enters you you will feel it, i promise.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2006): Sex mostly is all in your mind. If you truly care about who you are doing the deed with then you will enojoy it. If you are just having sex for the sake of having sex, thats why your not feeling anything.
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